Kathryn Rateliff Barr has taught birth, parenting, vaccinations and alternative medicine classes since 1994.She is a pastoral family counselor and has parented birth, step, adopted and foster children.She holds bachelor's degrees in English and history from Centenary College of Louisiana.

Are you less desirable to men because you already have one marriage under your belt? It's not easy to start dating again after a divorce.

Not only do you have to get in the single mindset again, but now you're competing with women who've never been married before.

In this video, image consultant, matchmaker and Your Tango Expert Kimberly Seltzer explains that "there are no universal answers to [the] question" of whether men will date divorced women because, frankly, "it all depends on the guy." Instead, Kimerly suggests what's most important is for you to focus less on what the guy wants, and more on what you want from a dating experience.

Find out more about what Kimberly has to say by watching the video above!

Most single moms remarry within five years of the divorce, according to the 2006 U. Census Bureau report "Remarriage in the United States." Before you can marry her, though, you have to win her trust and love in a dating relationship.

Common challenges during the dating period including pacing the relationship, balancing her needs with those of her kids and scheduling time for dates.Dating isn't a single mom's top priority, so help her arrange things so she can get out with you.Let her know you understand that her kids come first.If the ex isn't co-parenting and the kids are too young to be left alone, she will have to hire a babysitter or at least have advanced planning to go out.Money might also be tight for her, so offer to pay the sitter and definitely spring for all the other date expenses.A single mom has to be tough, independent, patient, real, practical, fun, selfless, nurturing, and picky about the right man for her and the kids.